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In October, at the Idaho Public Sector Human Resources Association (PSHRA – Idaho) Conference, our BestDayHR President and Co-Founder, Kelcey Stewart, turned the traditional idea of executive presence on its head.

Most people hear that phrase and immediately picture polished blazers, perfect hair, and leaders who seem to move through their day with impossible poise. Kelcey began her talk by naming that very image — the kind of leader who appears effortless and composed, the type of person many of us assume we’re supposed to become.

Then she offered something far more honest.

Kelcey explained that executive presence has very little to do with what you’re wearing or how perfectly you hold yourself. Instead, it has everything to do with how you show up when life is at its messiest — on the days when the script falls apart, when you’re tired, stretched, heartbroken, overwhelmed, or simply doing your best to keep going. True presence lives in the in-between spaces, in the unseen moments, in the grit beneath the polish.




Sweet Cover and Salty Core


She described it as a blend of Sweet Cover and Salty Core — polish paired with depth, poise backed by humanity, professionalism grounded in real life. It’s the kind of leadership that makes room for humor, imperfection, and heart.

And she made it tangible by pointing to the clothes we wear during the moments that define us — not because they complete a look, but because they hold the stories we lived in them. A coat can remind you of who steadied you. Shoes can mark the miles of a season you survived. A blazer can signal the moment you found your voice.


Follow along on our social channels. Throughout December, we'll share clips from Kelcey’s session — short, meaningful reflections you can revisit as you set the tone for 2026.





Executive Presence Isn’t A Blazer—It’s A Behavior


Executive presence isn’t built in a single moment—it’s shaped by the small, intentional ways we choose to show up each day.